When you’re parenting a child with ADHD, you’re on a unique journey that’s often as confusing as it is rewarding. In this post, you will find a carefully curated collection of some great ADHD books for parents. These titles provide deeply researched, expert-backed, and parent-tested strategies to manage the daily ups and downs of raising a child with ADHD. From understanding the nuances of diagnosis to engaging with your child’s unique ‘superpowers,’ these ADHD books offer a comprehensive view.
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ADHD Books for Parents
Here are our top ADHD books for parents:
1. A Beginner’s Guide on Parenting Children with ADHD, by Richard Bass
The title says it all—it’s a beginner’s guide, but don’t let that fool you. This book is jam-packed with comprehensive information that’s easy to digest. From recognizing the early signs of ADHD to advocating for your child’s educational needs, Bass covers it all. What I found particularly refreshing was the focus on harnessing the strengths that come with ADHD.
The book doesn’t just highlight challenges; it also offers actionable solutions—like specific tactics for emotional regulation and social skill development. It even touches upon medication and alternative treatment options. Trust me, this is the kind of roadmap that cuts through the clutter and offers genuinely useful insights.
2. Parenting ADHD Now!, by Elaine Taylor-Klaus, Diane Dempster MHSA CPC PCC
This one’s a gem! The authors introduce the Coach-Approach to parenting, which basically gives you the tools to be your child’s best advocate and coach. What struck me the most was the emphasis on focusing on the parent.
You know how they say, put on your oxygen mask first before assisting others? This book embodies that spirit. It’s not just about helping your child navigate the labyrinth of ADHD; it’s also about strengthening your own emotional well-being. Elaine and Diane offer real, practical strategies to not only manage ADHD symptoms but also to create a more harmonious family life. It feels like talking to wise friends who’ve been there, done that, and got a whole wardrobe of T-shirts.
3. ADHD Raising an Explosive Child, by Anna Wiley
nna Wiley gets it. She understands the highs and lows of parenting a child with ADHD, and she’s put all that knowledge into this practical handbook. The book stands out for its straightforward advice. Whether you’re dealing with temper tantrums or struggling to instill discipline, Wiley offers invaluable tips to help both you and your child.
The guide aims to equip parents to turn stressful moments into opportunities for growth and empowerment for their kids. It’s an excellent read for those looking to inject some tranquility and control into the often chaotic journey of raising a child with ADHD.
4. How NOT to Murder Your ADHD Kid, by Sarah Templeton
Sarah Templeton offers a somewhat cheeky title that might bring a smile to any parent who knows the trials and tribulations of raising an ADHD kid. But don’t be misled; the content is serious and incredibly informative.
The book delves into the three types of ADHD, covering everything from obvious traits to those that are less discussed. It even explores whether parents themselves might have ADHD traits—something I found intriguing. The book is a sort of Swiss Army knife, readying you for the 30+ scenarios you’re likely to face at home. Templeton encourages parents to become their child’s own ADHD coach, offering tools you didn’t even know you needed.
5. Taking Charge of ADHD, by Russell A. Barkley
Dr. Barkley’s book is like the encyclopedia of ADHD parenting but without the tedious jargon. Seriously, it offers so much—encouragement, guidance, and practical tips that are a godsend. What I appreciate here is the balance between understanding the diagnosis and actionable steps for management.
Whether you’re dealing with school authorities or looking to restore peace at home, Barkley provides a step-by-step guide that’s updated with the latest research. It’s the kind of book you’ll refer to over and over again as your child navigates different stages of life.
6. 12 Principles for Raising a Child with ADHD, by Russell A. Barkley
Another one by Dr. Barkley, and for a good reason. This concise guide is born out of years of research and firsthand experiences with thousands of families. It presents 12 key principles for parents, helping them cope with a range of challenges, from behavioral issues to academic struggles.
The book encourages parents to cultivate a mindset of acceptance and compassion. It’s filled with quick-reference lists and practical tips that can be implemented without a fuss. I particularly liked the focus on understanding the executive function deficits in ADHD; it’s like decoding the ‘why’ behind behaviors to better manage them.
7. Raising Boys With ADHD, by Mary Anne Richey, James W. Forgan
This book is like a candid conversation with two parents who’ve walked the path with their own sons with ADHD. What’s interesting here is that it covers phases other books might miss, such as the preschool years and early diagnosis.
I love how the book is filled with practical advice and resources, and offers a hopeful outlook for parents who are just coming to terms with their child’s diagnosis. It also includes strategies for teens making the transition to work and college, making it a comprehensive guide from childhood to young adulthood.
8. The Essential Guide to Raising Complex Kids with ADHD, by Elaine Taylor-Klaus
Elaine Taylor-Klaus brings her own unique ‘coach-approach’ method into play in this book. Designed to cater to kids with ADHD, anxiety, and even other conditions like autism and depression, this guide is a powerhouse of actionable strategies.
One thing that caught my eye is how Taylor-Klaus emphasizes setting realistic expectations to prevent the common ups and downs that can disrupt daily life. The idea here isn’t just to manage ADHD but to build a foundation for a lifetime of confidence and success, regardless of what disorders or challenges your child might be facing.
9. What Your ADHD Child Wishes You Knew, by Dr. Sharon Saline
Here’s a book that pulls back the curtain on the inner world of children with ADHD. I find it fascinating how Dr. Saline has based this guide on the words and experiences of young people living with ADHD.
She provides a comprehensive blueprint for collaboration between parents and children, covering academic struggles, daily challenges, and even the art of setting mutual goals. Think of this book as a way to get into your child’s mind, to better understand their struggles, and then work together for a happier, more cooperative family dynamic.
10. Boy Without Instructions: Surviving the Learning Curve of Parenting a Child with ADHD., by Penny Williams
This one hits differently. Penny Williams takes us on an emotional rollercoaster through her own journey of raising a child with ADHD. Let’s be honest, not many books tackle the emotional grit involved in parenting a child with ADHD—those difficult moments where you feel like you’re losing your sanity.
Williams breaks down her journey from a stressed, helicopter parent to someone who becomes confident and optimistic about raising a child with ADHD. You feel like you’re growing along with her as you read through the pages, and that’s what makes this book so valuable.
11. Raising Superstar Kids with ADHD, by Lydia Fields
Lydia Fields’ book is like a treasure trove of parenting techniques and practical knowledge. What I especially appreciate is how the book focuses on the ‘superpowers’ of kids with ADHD, rather than just the challenges. This resonates with my philosophy that each child brings unique qualities to the table.
The book dives into daily routines, which is crucial given how routine-sensitive kids with ADHD can be. It even offers a sample routine, providing something concrete for parents to hold onto. Moreover, it addresses the significance of social development and emotions, aspects sometimes overlooked but crucial for any child’s growth.
12. ADHD: What Every Parent Needs to Know, by American Academy of Pediatrics, Mark L. Wolraich MD FAAP, Joseph F. Hagan Jr MD FAAP
It’s always reassuring when the experts weigh in, and this one comes from the American Academy of Pediatrics. The book is comprehensive, touching on behavior therapy, academics, and even alternative treatments.
It offers the credibility of established medical advice alongside relatable stories from caregivers. I find the balance between clinical advice and personal anecdotes to be particularly beneficial. This would be a great foundational text for any parent dealing with ADHD, adding credence to any other resources or strategies they might be exploring.
13. Parenting Children With ADHD: 10 Lessons That Medicine Cannot Teach, by Dr. Vincent J. Monastra PhD
I think we all know that while medicine has its place, it’s not the be-all-end-all for managing ADHD. Dr. Monastra seems to get that. He discusses not only medical treatments but also delves into educational laws, practical coping strategies, and psychological treatments.
The emphasis on what medicine cannot teach is an eye-opener. It reminds me of the multiple dimensions involved in education and child development, from the classroom to home to the health clinic.
Final thoughts
By equipping yourself with these resources, you’re setting a strong foundation for your child’s success and your family’s emotional well-being. Remember, having a child with ADHD doesn’t define you as a parent, but how you guide and support them can make all the difference.